Most businesses say they have core values. Some even print them on walls, mugs, tote bags, and the occasional heroic hoodie. Very inspiring. Very photogenic. Very easy to ignore.
We did not want that.
When we set out to define our business’s core values, our goal was not to create corporate wallpaper. We wanted a practical set of principles that could guide hiring, shape decisions, sharpen accountability, and make our culture feel less like a mystery novel and more like a shared operating system.
What we discovered is simple: core values are not fluffy extras for “someday when we’re bigger.” They are foundational tools for businesses that want better communication, stronger teams, smarter growth, and fewer moments that begin with, “Wait…why did we do that?”
In this article, I’ll walk you through how we developed our company values, what worked, what almost sent us into buzzword purgatory, and why every business should go through this process before culture starts writing itself without permission.
Why Core Values Matter More Than Most Businesses Realize
Core values are the principles that define how a company behaves when no one is watching, when everyone is watching, and when Slack is absolutely on fire. They shape how leaders lead, how teams collaborate, how feedback is delivered, how customers are treated, and how hard decisions get made.
Without clear values, businesses drift. One manager rewards speed at all costs. Another rewards perfection. A third rewards whoever answers emails at 11:47 p.m. with suspicious enthusiasm. Soon the company has multiple invisible rulebooks and one very tired team.
With strong core values, people gain clarity. They understand what good work looks like beyond hitting a number. They know which behaviors are celebrated, which ones are corrected, and what the company stands for when trade-offs get uncomfortable.
That is the real job of values. Not decoration. Direction.
What Pushed Us to Define Our Values
At first, we thought we were doing fine without formal values. The team was productive, customers were happy, and nobody had thrown a stapler in a dramatic act of symbolic despair. By all appearances, we had a culture.
But as we grew, small inconsistencies started multiplying. New hires got different versions of “how we do things here.” Managers described success in conflicting ways. Meetings drifted because people were solving for different priorities. We were not broken, but we were definitely improvising.
That was the turning point.
We realized culture was already happening whether we named it or not. The only question was whether we would shape it intentionally or leave it to habit, personality, and the loudest voice in the room.
So we decided to build our core values on purpose.
Step 1: We Started With Reality, Not Aspirations in Fancy Clothing
The first mistake many businesses make is choosing values they wish were true instead of values that reflect how the best work actually happens inside the company.
We did not begin by brainstorming sleek words for a poster. We began by asking practical questions:
- What behaviors show up when our team does its best work?
- What attitudes make collaboration easier, faster, and healthier?
- What patterns keep appearing in our strongest hires?
- What frustrates us most when things go wrong?
- What do we want customers, partners, and employees to consistently experience from us?
This approach changed everything. Instead of inventing an idealized company in our heads, we studied the business we were actually building. That helped us avoid generic words like “excellence” and “integrity” floating around with no practical meaning. Nice words, sure. But if nobody can tell what they look like on a Tuesday afternoon, they are not useful yet.
Step 2: We Collected Stories, Not Just Opinions
Next, we talked to people across the business. Not just leadership. Not just the people who always volunteer polished answers. We wanted a full picture, so we gathered stories from team members in different roles and stages of tenure.
We asked questions like:
- Tell me about a moment when you felt proud of how we worked.
- Describe a decision that felt very “us.”
- What kind of behavior earns trust quickly here?
- What kind of behavior damages trust fast?
- If you had to explain our culture to a smart candidate in one conversation, what would you say?
Stories gave us better data than abstract preferences. People may disagree about labels, but they are often remarkably consistent when describing real moments. The same themes kept coming up: honesty, ownership, curiosity, respect for others’ time, willingness to improve, and a bias toward solving instead of blaming.
That gave us raw material that felt alive. We were no longer guessing.
Step 3: We Turned Abstract Ideas Into Observable Behaviors
This was the most important step. We refused to keep any value unless we could define how it should look in practice.
For example, “Accountability” sounds respectable. It also sounds like something a laminated conference badge would say. So we made it specific: accountability means we own outcomes, communicate early when something slips, and bring options instead of excuses.
“Respect” became more than being polite in meetings. It meant listening fully, giving direct feedback without drama, preparing before asking for others’ time, and disagreeing without turning every conversation into a cage match with calendar invites.
“Growth” became a commitment to learning fast, reviewing mistakes honestly, and improving systems rather than endlessly decorating the same problem with fresh frustration.
Once each value had clear behaviors attached to it, the list became useful. It could guide hiring interviews, performance conversations, and team expectations. It stopped sounding like corporate poetry and started acting like management infrastructure.
Step 4: We Cut the List Down Ruthlessly
At one point, our draft values list was long enough to qualify as light reading for a domestic flight. That was a problem.
If everything is a core value, nothing is.
So we trimmed. Hard.
We challenged every candidate value with three tests:
- Is it essential? If we removed it, would the business feel meaningfully different?
- Is it distinctive? Does it reflect how we truly want to operate, not just how any reasonable company claims to operate?
- Is it actionable? Can employees use it to make a real decision?
We aimed for a short list people could actually remember. In the end, we landed on a handful of values strong enough to guide behavior without creating a mini textbook. Brevity mattered. Nobody needs twelve sacred principles and a decoder ring.
Step 5: We Tested the Values Against Real Business Decisions
Before finalizing anything, we pressure-tested each value against actual scenarios from the business.
Hiring
Would this value help us identify candidates who fit the way we work, not just those who interview well?
Customer service
Would it guide how we handle mistakes, difficult conversations, and rising expectations?
Leadership
Would it require managers to behave differently, or was it only written for everyone else? If a value only applies downward, it is not a value. It is a lecture.
Strategy and trade-offs
Could it help us choose between speed and quality, growth and focus, innovation and consistency?
This process exposed weak language fast. Some phrases sounded good in a workshop but became useless under pressure. Others got sharper when tested in the real world. That is how we knew which values were ready.
Step 6: We Rolled Them Into the Business, Not Just the Brand Deck
Here is where many companies stumble. They launch values with a town hall, a slide deck, and maybe cookies if the budget is feeling optimistic. Then the values quietly disappear while the business continues rewarding old behaviors.
We wanted our values to live where daily decisions happen, so we integrated them into key systems:
- Hiring: interview questions now assess how candidates think and behave, not just what they know.
- Onboarding: new hires learn what each value means in practical terms from day one.
- Performance reviews: results matter, but so does how those results are achieved.
- Recognition: we celebrate examples of values in action, not just big wins.
- Management training: leaders are expected to model the values consistently, especially when things are difficult.
This is where values gain credibility. Employees notice quickly whether the company rewards behavior that matches its stated principles. If the poster says “collaboration” but promotions go only to solo heroes who leave chaos behind them, the poster loses. Every time.
The Biggest Lessons We Learned
1. Values are discovered as much as they are written
The strongest values often reflect patterns already present in your best people and best work. The process is part archaeology, part strategy.
2. Generic values are forgettable values
If your list could belong equally to a law firm, a bakery, a software startup, and a moderately aggressive yacht club, it probably needs work.
3. Leaders make or break the whole thing
Teams do not learn values from documents. They learn them from what leaders tolerate, reward, repeat, and model.
4. Values must help with conflict, not just inspiration
A good value is useful when priorities clash, deadlines tighten, and someone suggests a shortcut that feels clever for about six minutes.
5. You have to revisit them as the business evolves
Core values should be stable, but the language around them can mature as the company grows. A business with ten people and a business with two hundred people face very different cultural pressures.
Why You Should Develop Your Business’s Core Values Too
If you own, lead, or help shape a business, this work is worth doing because it solves problems that spreadsheets cannot. Clear values improve alignment. They reduce confusion. They help teams move faster because people share better assumptions. They strengthen hiring because candidates understand what kind of environment they are joining. They support retention because employees want clarity, fairness, and meaning, not just random motivational slogans taped near the coffee machine.
Core values also protect your business as it grows. Expansion creates noise. More people, more decisions, more handoffs, more opportunities for culture to become accidental. Values create continuity. They give the business a center of gravity.
Just as importantly, they help you say no. No to the wrong hire, the wrong client, the wrong partnership, the wrong shortcut, and the wrong internal habits that quietly erode trust.
That is why this process matters. It is not branding fluff. It is operational clarity with a human face.
How to Start If You’re Doing This for the First Time
If your business has never defined its core values, start small and stay honest. Gather stories. Look for patterns. Translate ideas into behaviors. Cut the list until it becomes memorable. Then build those values into how the company hires, trains, manages, and rewards people.
Do not aim for perfection on the first pass. Aim for usefulness.
And please, for the love of all future onboarding sessions, do not choose seven vague nouns and call it a culture strategy.
Experience From the Process: What It Actually Felt Like Inside the Business
One of the most surprising parts of developing our core values was how emotional the process became. We expected a strategic exercise. We got that, yes, but we also got a mirror. The conversations forced us to confront what kind of company we were becoming, not just what kind of company we wanted to advertise.
At first, some people were skeptical. A few thought it would turn into a wordsmithing contest where everyone politely debates synonyms for “innovation” until morale leaves the building. Others worried leadership had already made the decisions and the team would simply be invited to clap at the end. That skepticism was healthy. It forced us to prove the process was real.
As interviews and workshops continued, the mood shifted. Team members started sharing stories that exposed what mattered most to them: a manager who admitted a mistake early instead of hiding it, a teammate who stayed late to fix a client issue without making it theatrical, a project lead who gave credit away generously, a hard conversation that stayed respectful and productive. These moments had more power than any polished statement we could have drafted in isolation.
We also learned where our culture was under stress. Some employees experienced the business as collaborative; others experienced it as too dependent on informal heroics. Some felt empowered; others wanted clearer expectations. That was uncomfortable, but useful. Without that honesty, our values would have described a fantasy company instead of the real one.
There were practical benefits almost immediately. Hiring became more focused because interviewers had a shared language for what great fit actually meant. Feedback became easier because managers could refer to agreed principles rather than personal preference. Even meetings improved. Fewer side quests. More clarity. Fewer “I thought we meant this.” More “Here’s the value we’re using to make the call.”
The biggest lesson, though, was this: defining values did not magically create culture. It made culture discussable, teachable, and measurable. It gave us a way to reinforce the best parts of how we worked and correct the parts that were creating friction. That alone made the effort worthwhile.
Looking back, I would recommend this process to any business, especially one that is growing quickly or feeling culturally fuzzy around the edges. You do not need a giant HR department. You do need honesty, patience, and the willingness to turn good intentions into repeatable behavior. Once that happens, values stop being decorative language and start becoming part of how the business actually runs.
Conclusion
Developing our business’s core values did not give us a perfect company. It gave us something more useful: a clearer one. We now have shared standards for decision-making, collaboration, leadership, and growth. We know what we reward, what we protect, and what we expect from ourselves when the easy option is not the right one.
If your business has been operating on instinct alone, consider this your sign. Build the values before chaos does it for you.